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Should Women Take The Initiative to Call The Men?

By Expert Author: Chris J Roberts | Article Abstract
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As a lady who is dating a man, should you take the initiative of calling him? This is a question that troubles many of us.

Well, you will be getting in touch with the man you love, what on earth could be wrong with that? Actually, almost everything could be wrong. Yet this is the mistake that many of us tend to make from time to time, and then wonder the direction the relationships are taking.

If you think that it is perfectly okay for you to be the one making the calls between you and the man you love, you are mistaken. This is something that is bound to affect both of you. On your part, you will feel that it is rather unfair for the man to leave you to carry the greater burden of encouraging communication between you. On the other hand, the man will really see no reason to call since you are doing it anyway. While he will be content with the fact that you are already making the calls, you will be burning with frustration as it seem every time you're the one to call him.

There are a few simple tips that will help you get out of this rut. You just need to have enough discipline.

Get into his mind

You should bear in mind that men do not communicate in the same way as we do. Another important fact you should know is that the men will quickly get used to the way the relationship is developing. In case you happen to start off with making frequent phone calls, he will come to expect you to call. He knows that he will get your call when you do not hear from him. So he won't have any motivation to call. On the other hand, you will get used to calling him and inquire as to what is happening.

End your calls

If you would like to see things taking a different turn, you will need to start the change yourself. Just end your incessant calls to him. It is understandable that you will strongly feel like picking up the phone when he does not call for a number of days. However, be determined not to give him any call.

As has been said repeatedly, actions speak louder than words. While it is not exactly wrong to tell him directly that he should take a fair share of the calling, you will get better results when you show him the fact through actions.

When your guy realizes that he no longer receives your calls as he used to, he will pick up the phone and call.
Chris J Roberts

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Are you hesitating whether you should be calling the man? To learn the secret strategies to make a man call you instead and recognize if he is really interested in you OR he is not. You can find all the answers by visiting why doesn't he call?

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Article Submitted: 2009-05-25 | This Article has been viewed 141 times.

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